Tips
These are some general tips that we have compiled in order to make the relationship between you and your horse a happy one. These are just suggestions, things that have worked for other people. They range from new-horse tips to tips that could be useful for anyone.
Allow your new horse to settle in for 2-3 weeks, they need to develope a routine. Try not to change there environments too many times when they first arrive. Even a simple moved bucket can cause stress.
Make sure all your tack fits properly: bit, bridle and saddle, along with any other pieces of equipment. Even the slightest pinch can make the best behaved horse act up.
Be aware of your own riding skills. Are you asking your horse to do something you are unaware of? Before you pass the judgement that your horse is acting poorly, look at how you are riding and make adjustments. (This is where a trainer comes in handy.)
When buying a horse don't over-estimate your riding abilities. If you are a beginner DON'T try to buy an advanced level horse. Most people, unless being helped by a qualified trainer, with end up getting frustrated by a horse that they can't handle, and both horse and rider will gain nothing from the relationship.
When you get assistance from a trainer make sure you know who you are dealing with. If you don't like the condition of horses on their farm, or don't like the way they treat you, your horse, or others, you don't have to stay. Ask for references or talk to other people in the stable about their experiences.
If your horse suddenly begins to act up, don't just assume he has just turned mean. Check your tack, his environment, his health, etc. If he suddenly just changes there is probably a trigger that started the bad behavior.
There are many good books/videos/people available that can provide you with assistance to help you gain skills or advance your horse. It's hard not to listen to some of these people, but you have to remember every source will have the answer to your problems, but not every source will suit you. It is important to feel comfortable with the advice you are going to use. The better you feel about it, the better chance you have of getting your horse to respond.
Don't spoil your horse! This is hard for many people, and I admit, I like to pamper my horse. However, some horses can't handle the pampering and will get pushy or lazy. A treat, or letting your horse get away with a little nibble of the grass during a ride every once in a while, probably isn't going to hurt, but don't let him get too out of line. Remember, he probably has about 1000 lbs over you, and most horses are very smart!
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